Taiwanese Guys Sipping the Haterade

But, where do we start? This topic has been popularized by many foreign men and even my Taiwanese friend who attended Middle School, High School, and college in a Western Environment. The popular belief is "Taiwanese men are losers that do not know how to trick women". It seems that no matter who I ask, whether it be Overseas Taiwanese, Taiwanese guys with girlfriends, ABCs, or white guys they all seem to agree on this opinion and why is that?

First of all the Taiwanese guys that do not get a girl I do realize that they lack some confidence and aggressiveness. What exacerbates this situation is many of them usually resort to petty remarks and hurl platitudes at people with girlfriends. Like for instance I was having coffee with a friend. It was a nice relaxing reunion which occurs once every three months since I live in Taipei and she resides in Kaohsiung. The mood was pretty amiable until she kept getting phone calls from a man who was depressed and felt the need to criticize me with petty remarks such as "He only gets girls because he is an American Man". This is the most absolute ridiculous statement I have ever heard. One because a 200 CM man is saying a 175cm man whom many DOn't SEE AS A FOREIGNER in TAIWAN is getting girls because he is a westerner?!! That is ridiculous how he made assumptions like that. In order to gain more value on the dating market I actually had to battle social anxiety disorder which many people called Down Syndrome for many years and lose 20 kilograms from my body frame. It was a seriously an difficult task to perform. You know and the funnier thing is my friend thought her friend was a very attractive man. Had he had the bravery to actually i dunno ASK HER OUT instead calling her to criticize me his chances and her image of him would have been A LOT BETTER. Overall if you're tired of ABCs ,Caucasians, or Asshole natives getting girls then WHY Don't you step up and do something instead being shy and then pulling that "Oh Woe is Me Oh I can't get a girlfriend OOOOH NO" "Did you try asking her out" "mmm no?" "THEN STFU"

Furthermore if they aren't shy they're usually bonehead or idiotically aggressive. One of my friends let's call him JC is a Taiwanese Native and he has a girlfriend that is constantly pestered by men. She often gets "proposed" to or giving lavish gifts by men who wish to be potential partners. When they don't succeed they pretty much behave in a puerile manner. Pretty much hurling insults at JC and asking his girlfriend why she is even with him. One humorous case is when the man actually got angry at JC's girlfriend for spending too much time with JC and not enough with him. This is just one of the most ignorant things I have ever stumbled upon. Since when was ANGER and Jealously an attraction factor? It never was and never will be.

Additionally, a lot of the loser Taiwanese guys often make excuses. It's a big Taiwan thing to not take responsibility for your own actions and blame your misfortunes squarely on something else. Numerous Taiwanese guys often make the excuse that sound something like this, "Oh I have money, cars, and a good job why is she going out with him not me this is bullshit" First of all money has no relevance in a relationship unless you plan to frequent a brothel , barbershop, or yellow KTV. In fact if you go to nightclubs or most places my friend has said it. "Trust me you can drive a BMW have a Rolls Royce but a tall strong slim looking low class mechanic will get the girls". They obviously cannot grasp the idea that you don't start dating after you get established because dating isn't a talent. It is a trial and error activity. No one I know is a natural at dating they've only become good at it because they've dated a lot and learned from their mistakes throughout the years. In short Taiwanese guys who have trouble dating need to learn to be more independent, strong, and stop being so jealous all the time.